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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Dear Fatine Young




When I was at mamak’s with this evening, my friend suddenly came out with one name that really caught my attention. Fatine Young.   

Look at the picture above. She is Fatine Young. She’s pretty isn’t she? Well, look again because ‘she’ is actually ‘he’.

 His real name is Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari. He was a make-up artist. He turned out to be transsexual, and prefers to be called Fatine or better known as Fatine Young.

Earlier, Fatine made headlines when he married a straight man from Derby, Ian Young in a British civil partnership ceremony last year (u can read here if u care to know how they met). But after a while, she faced the possibility of deportation back to Malaysia when she was denied a visa to stay in UK since she entered the country as a visitor.

After struggling over a year to get a visa to reside in United Kingdom, he finally obtained a valid visa. He announced and shared the good news through his Facebook account. (This was how my friend noticed about him.)

I just don’t understand what’s wrong with people nowadays. Why want to change ur sex genital? He’s not even a khunsa (people are born with two reproductive organs). So why can’t he just accept that he is a man?

Let me tell u some fact Fatine Young.
A lady or a woman is born with uterus, reproductive organs and have menstrual period, can bear children. Those who do not have all these organs, are not women, these are medical facts!
God has created us to be man and woman and God created men to be with women. There will not be any other way.
There is something that brings to my interest. The interviewed between Fatine and Malay Mail. Here I stated few of the questions and answers:


Q: There are those who would claim you've shamed Malaysia, what do you say?
A:
It makes me very sad. Far from being sympathetic towards my plight, these people have singled me out from amongst thousands of overstaying Malaysians in the UK. If these people didn't turn their backs on Malaysians who have even been convicted of crimes abroad, why are they dressing me down in public? What crime have I done? I've tried my best to comply with UK Immigration laws. I followed everything by the book and even hired an Immigration lawyer to handle my application, just to ensure I don’t breach UK immigration laws. Tell me how have I brought shame to our nation? Could it stem from prejudice towards me as a pre-op transsexual who was registered at birth as Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari?

Q: There have been questions pertaining to whether you are still a Muslim.
A:
As ignorant as I am, my faith has not strayed. I am still a Muslim, and I still carry out my religious duties as expected of me.

Q: Do you think people were confused over the terms marriage and civil partnership? Is it the same or does it just bear similarities?
A:
A civil partnership is an agreement, which validates my relationship with Ian within the civil laws of England. It has nothing to do with religion. Ian is still practising his own religion, and so am I.




How in the hell u still consider urself to carry out ur religion?

Everything u did was wrong! Islam never allowed man to be transsexual. Islam never allowed man to be gay. Islam never allowed u to married other religious unless ur partner convert to Islam first. The question here is not about u bring shame to our country, but about u bring shame to ISLAM!

Clearly doing something against the teaching of Islam and confirm himself a Muslim is really stupid and shows his ignorance even more. If Fatine is not a muslim, if he wants to marry a cow also I wouldn't really care. But since he declares himself still following the teaching, u cannot pick and choose what u want to practice and not.  U has to accept the whole package. I really hate it when people try to change the religion according to their whims and fancy and saying "let God decide". Hasn't God decided in His teachings?

I know for some so-called-modern-muslim and non-muslim (supporters of Fatine)must say that being a Muslim is like having an old fashioned, third world, kampung mentality. U guys might say let Fatine go on with his life. Don’t bother him as he done nothing wrong and bring no harm to anybody. U guys might say he deserved to lead his own way of life.

Well, for those who said like above, think again.

Let me give u an example, like me, yesterday I killed 3 kittens by putting them on my snake aqua. I saw my pet ate them one by one. I felt happy all day long as I heard they're screaming like hell. As long as I’m happy, I don’t care what people said and my parent supported me too. Please don’t condemn me u guys. Don’t judge me, I just do what I like to do, I deserve to lead my own way of life. U guys just shut the fuck up and mind ur own business.

SO WAS MY ACTION RIGHT? NO, IT IS WRONG!

Same as Fatine’S case here, even he deserve to lead his own way of life, to find his own way of happiness, and having some minority supporting him, that still doesn’t make it right. What’s wrong is still wrong even u do it for ur own happiness. Things that against the nature is clearly wrong.

And u guys might say that Fatine’s action does not bring harm to anyone, but my example just now did bring harmed to 3 kittens. Well, think thoroughly. Fatine’s action actually will bring worst harm than ever. He will harm the society. He will harm the human ecosystem. He will destroy the next and the future generation. If one people were allowed to easily change their transsexual, than many will follow his footstep.

Let be honest and ask ourselves, what will happen to our generation if this kind of action is acceptable in the society? God (any god) don't ask u to just pray, sit down and accept everything but God has given us brain to think wisely. So use ur head to think!

I sincerely sympathize with Fatine. But nope, I won't accept his excuses. I strongly urged that this person seek forgiveness and repent. If he still admitted that he is a Muslim, if he was born and named with BIN, please repent and seek forgiveness.

Fatine, Islam is not only faith but also a way of life. These two goes together. If u calls urself a Muslim, u has to adhere to the rules and regulations of the religion. Being a Muslim, u are within a 'group' and to maintain peace every member of the group will have to follow the rules of the group. If one doesn't follow and let be there will be chaos. Since u decided to marry a man, and not follow the rule of the group, might as well leave the group (Islam). If the group allows u to be in the 'group' then there will be chaos. Because every member of the group will think on how easy it is to just break the rules and get away with it. Hope u understand brother.









25 comments:

timun cino said...

is 'her' same with the previous Fatin. i mean, that Fatin already married with some guy

Anonymous said...

why u care to bother others sin? whatever she does doesn't represent the Muslim AS U ALL MUSLIM don't recognize the TERRORIST as yours. it's same? sin is sin. what is more damaging?

Fared Isa said...

timun : i dont know which Fatin did u refer to..but this fatine also already married, with guy name Ian Young..

anon : of coz what he(fatine) does do represents the muslim because he clearly admit that he is muslim and still practice muslim's teaching. and about the terrorist, which terrorist are u talking about? the zionist or the american?

timun cino said...

yeah,he is the same guy. the previous case when he came back to Malaysia to settle his visa matter.mann...almost like a gal!!seriously

term said...

salam.. btw.. Ian Young convert kpd Islam tak?

Fared Isa said...

timun cino : yes, he take hormone to enlarge his breast...

term : salam..nope, he not convert to muslim...even though he convert to muslim, still doesn't make it right at the first place coz they both are man! Islam never allowed same sex marriage.

term said...

yer.. agree with u.. ni lah yg terjadi apabila manusia buat hukum sendiri pakai kepala lutut, ikut nafsu, syariat direndah- rendahkan.. asal kerja jahat diorang jalan..

moga Allah bg hidayat kepada dia dan kita semua agar sentiasa di landasan siratul mustaqim.. ameen..

keep 'universalling' ur entry!

Anonymous said...

did ian young know that the 'woman' that he actually married is transexual guy? or he have been cheated??? anyone can tell?

Fared Isa said...

term : insyaAllah i will..thanks..

anon : of coz ian young knows that his wife is transsexual guy..he not been cheated..

Anonymous said...

haha the terrorist that i meant is the guy who blowing himself in the name of Allah thinking of having 70 virgin in heaven after being martyr.. what the hell he expects after killing 3 foreigners and hundreds of his own people...

Anonymous said...

err.. 'she' perform jumaat prayer or not?

famy said...
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famy said...

I really hate it when people try to change the religion according to their whims and fancy and saying "let God decide". Hasn't God decided in His teachings?----> i love that

he can portrays bad image and confusions to muslim

maCy said...

dear anon, do show urself n share ur thought wif pride~

bdw, hes seriously pretty~

Anonymous said...

May i put ur entry on my facebook?.


Baha Bahar

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?id=100000561871718

homecare uk ltd said...

well just to let every one know she came to the uk used me to live here to get her visa and then left 2 weeks after her visa comming though so you are all looking at a real scammer her she has distroed live and hurt people with out a thought. Ian James Young

homecare uk ltd said...

just to let you all know after fighting so hard to keep fatine in the uk she got her visa and left me. she is a real scammer and disgrace to all genuine people in love she has broke my heart and hurt people who loved her she has taken everything and treated people like dirt

homecare uk ltd said...

she is a repulsive scammer and a shame to malasia she huts people and distroys lives
she should see she sould be shamed ant set home to face all the people she insulted
ian young her distroyed husband

homecare uk ltd said...

she is a repulsive scammer and a shame to malasia she huts people and distroys lives
she should see she sould be shamed ant set home to face all the people she insulted
ian young her distroyed husband

si blogger kerek said...

one quick update. fatine leave her 'hubby' the very next day die dapat visa tuk duduk kat uk as a refugee.

Anonymous said...

i know what she did was wrong as a muslim but as i know her personally i can says she a very2 nice person - even nicer than some of my real woman friend...and Ian you should be ashamed with your statement about her because you should know what you done to her..... she leave everything behind including her loves one back home to be with you and you destroyed her ....she deserve better...to fatine stay strong & should 'T' be the man of your live now & ever...take care darling....

mq said...

sekarang she's being deported sbab ada affair dengan lelaki lain kan? lol idk but gila gross kot tukar-tukar jantina ni. -____- ew.

Anonymous said...

Tuan empuna blogger ini... and punyer nahu (grammar) banyak salah lah. SAKIT MATA aku membaca.

Anonymous said...

I read the star yesterday and I just got to know about 'mrs' fatine young.Believe it or not what the author of this blogger has said has its rights and wrongs.
for a fact, we all know that in malaysia, there's so many other maknyahs in malaysia but why mrs young got the headlines was becoz she had decided to 'marry' another man. now what she did was wrong very wrong.indeed there is no such thing as change of sex in islam.unless u are a kunsa which i believe is not the fault of the person being born that way.i believe we could offer advices to mrs young but only if she wants to listen because if we look at 'sins' in islam in a wider range.there's so many being commited these days that it's unfair to condemn 1 person for the wrongs of many.before mrs young, there were many other maknyahs.it has existed long before mrs young opted to be 1.and so i believe condemning her eternally for what she has chosen to be is unfair as allah itu maha esa dan he forgives if a person really repents.what we can hope for (if we really care that is) is for mrs young to realise her sins 1 day and repent to allah swt and choose the right way to lead her life.-miss m

Anonymous said...

What right do you have to judge her? You as a supposed know-it-all muslim should know that only Allah SWT has all the right to judge...(and I'm sure you will not approve this comment)...

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