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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

SEX EDUCATION IN SCHOOL???



Regarding with the increasing cases of throwing babies, the government is in the middle of planning to implement sex education in school.

Wait, allowed sex education to implement in the school?

Well, I don’t think that is a good idea.

The main reason why government would want to implement sex education in the school is to curb and reduce the underage girls from having babies. If that’s the target, to curb the pregnancy alone, yes, maybe they will succeed to achieve the objective. But that’s not the whole point at all. If we want to solve an issue of these throwing babies, we should start it from the roots. We should stop them from having sex at all!

Youngster had babies because they had sex. They had sex because they were so imbecile and immature to differentiate between right and wrong. They didn’t think much of the consequence that might come to haunted them afterword. Ironically they only know one word, and the word is, ENJOY.

So how about we take away the word ENJOY from them? How about we brainwash them to be more mature and to be more responsible and realistic? And the only way to brainwash them is like usual, by bring them back to the basic, ISLAM.

I say ISLAM here because I’m pretty sure that these issues were always come from Malay teenagers, so that’s why I will highlight more about ISLAM.

So instead of teaching them sex education, teach them more about religion (more Islamic lesson) and morale (for non-muslim). I’m pretty sure that Biology subject is good enough to cover all about sex that we need to know.

Now let’s go to some serious business here. No sex-stupid-education but more religion-wise-education. Besides, what’s the point of teaching people about sex? Even cow also know about sex. Sex is one of human main needs and necessities, just like a food. We don’t need to teach people how to eat, they will figure it out by themselves as it very important for them to live. Same goes with the sex. No need to teach people about sex, teach them to control it, to understand it, which is why they need to fully understand Islam.

Let’s look back, sex education that they want to implement in the school will teach student something that related to sex. Highlight ‘related to sex’. That is the attraction here. Refer from the famous book, THE SECRET by Rhonda Bynes, the things that we attract to is the thing that will comes to us. Whether we think about it because we like it or we don’t, we still attract to it, still attach to it, which will makes that thing comes to us automatically. That’s something that Brynes and her allies called as the Law of Universe. So if we based on what this book tells, we teach sex to the students, don’t be surprised if one day they go home and practice it for real.

My point here is, to curb student from having babies, don’t teach them on how to practice a safe sex, but teach them more about religion! U teach student to practice safe sex, they will still having a sex, just in a little bit safe way, maybe by wearing condom or eat anti-pregnancy pills, which they only focus on not having a baby. This is wrong. We should stop the student from having sex, in other words, no sex at all, not no baby at all.

Teach students seriously about religion, which is right, which is wrong, which can do, which cannot do, and make sure they absorb it! And of course parents should also play important role in this. Do not let your kids do whatever they like, control them, do not follow their way, but force them to follow your way. I bet u the parents must know better what’s good for their kids. Give freedom to them means give them the lead to the self-destruction.

Now I would like to touch about the caning sentences that have been carried out to 3 girls who committed adultery. Well, I admit that was a good start to implement the syariah law. Even though it was not really follow the hudud style, where in hudud, the sentences should be carried out in a public, so that other’s who saw it got the point not to follow the same mistake. But still this one can be accepted as a first move. Maybe after this they can practice the punishment in public to get the real value of what Hudud is all about.

When the real Hudud is implemented in our system, I bet nobody ever dare again to steal, rape, fornicate and do any bad things. This is in another words can solve all the major problems that our country having, like corruption, bribe, and including this throwing babies problem.

Finally, I come out with my conclusion that instead of teaching sex at school, teach them more about religion, make them understand Islam properly. Instead of implement sex education at school, better we implement hudud law in our justice system. Stop saying no to hudud, try first, do it properly, then let’s see the result. My dear Chinese and Indians friends, u guys have no need to worry about this, hudud just for muslim, u guys can still follow the original civil law.~

8 comments:

LuTaNiA said...

Well for me this is appropriate. Sbb if we only tekankan pada Islam, then how about other people, with many other diff religions, as we know Malaysia of? Of course if the other religions allow sex before marriage, we have to find a way to teach them how to avoid pregnancy.
And our people's mindset have to be changed. As a woman myself, I believe that those women did all those abortion, and throwing away babies because they're afraid about what their community is going to think of them. And I know it's easy for us to judge, but it's not only the women who are to blame, the seeds are from the men themselves too.
We know that sex before marriage is wrong,especially to our people(here means orang-orang Melayu Islam). Memang betul salah dari angle agama, tetapi teaching Agama in school dah dijalankan sejak lama lagi.Yang paling baik adalah didikan agama di rumah. Tetapi, untuk menyentuh keperluan satu negara Malaysia, yang mencatatkan record paling tinggi di southeast Asia untuk jumlah pembuangan bayi baru lahir paling banyak, adalah lebih baik jika pendekatan ini dilakukan.
In Netherlands yang juga telah mencatat record untuk pembuangan bayi baru lahir yang agak banyak, setelah co-curriculum ini dijalankn di sekolah2, jumlah pembuangan bayi semakin menurun. Jadi, selain inisiatif menjalankan pendidikan agama di sekolah, suatu pendekatan khas sperti ini patut dijalankan.
Selain daripada hukum hudud yang you cadangkan, I think there's always an option for a CURE first, rather than just PUNISHMENT for something that WE as whole, was too SHY to talk about.
And here, I think it not too feasible, because to punish someone for their sin, we have to find proof, we have to find eye-witness, and to avoid sex before marriage. Thing is, we wouldn't know if a couple had sex, we would only know if they're caught. Hence, if today we catch one couple, there's always the possibility of 10 other couples out there who have sex and no one would know a thing.
To curb this, we have to mencegah dari awal. Mencegah people dari datang ke tempat2 di mana muda mudi bergaul tanpa had, mencegah lelaki dan perempaun bergaul bersama, mencegah tempat2 seperti konsert, panggung wayang, tempat2 makan/ tempat dating. Tell me these are all feasible?
Maybe sex before marriage is WRONG, but throwing away babies, and killing another life, is even more vile. It's inhumane.
Think about it. InsyaAllah.

SALIM JOHARI said...

think about it???... think about what???...about your stupid opinion???...firstly i nk mohon sebillion sorry for my opinion below;


Hukum hudud dlm ISLAM bukannya hukum yg NABI, ULAMA', WALI n lain2 cipta....itu adalah hukum drpd Allah... dlm Al-quran dh jelas... hudud nampak kejam,tapi lu pkirla sendiri...klu tgk org kena potong tgn sbb mencuri, berani la plak kau ni nk mencuri lps tu....klu org berzina dgn isteri org lain, hukumnya rejam smpi mati...cube pkir...patut x?.. dh kawen, lps tu syok ngan bini org.. ptt ke org mcm ni hidup, kalau laki kau #*$% dgn bini org, kau terluka x??...biar kat dunia kena azab, jgn kat akhirat nnti.. hukum hudud bg org bukan islam pon ada.. sume ni trpulang kepada pemimpin utk melaksanakannya(klu btol dia pemimpin yg islamic)..


<>>>"To curb this, we have to mencegah dari awal. Mencegah people dari datang ke tempat2 di mana muda mudi bergaul tanpa had, mencegah lelaki dan perempaun bergaul bersama, mencegah tempat2 seperti konsert, panggung wayang, tempat2 makan/ tempat dating. Tell me these are all feasible?"<<<<<>


"MENCEGAH mcm mana tuh dik....nak sepak terajang bdk2 yg pegi lepak kt shopping complex, wayang, konsert, club dll....
salah ke tgk wayang?,yg bt maksiat dlm panggung tu sape sroh???, lepak kt shopping cmplex bt ape, dh tau melepak tu buang masa n duit.., dlm islam ade ke sroh bt konsert2 ni.., mlm dijadikan tdor bkn nye clubbing.... adik x kan x penah tgk wyg, gi konsert dll.... nk cegah pon x guna, SEGELINTIR org VVIP, superb VVIP pon clubbing jgak...kang klu ditutup club tu kang...x senang ddok plak diorng tu...


<>>>>Maybe sex before marriage is WRONG, but throwing away babies, and killing another life, is even more vile. It's inhumane.
Think about it. InsyaAllah<>>>

kat sekolah dlu sbject agama dpt A ke G... klu direjam sampai mati org yg berzina... itu adalah perkara yg mulia.. kerana org inila yg akan menambahkan lagi kaki2 zina di muka bumi ini....YANG INI BARU MENCEGAH nama nya..

one more thing... do u know pendidkan seks tu mcm mane???... bg tau aku...Let me tell you..

1. teach children how to have seks secra selamat, yakni, memakai kondom, makan pil perancang dll..

>dlm islam dh sah2 mengharamkan ZINA,.. KT MALAYSIA ni x relevan utk mwjudkan sbject ni...ini adlh perkara yg sensitive bg org melayu(islam)...pernah mak bapak you n me n others cita psl seks kt rumah, klu ade channel tv yg ade adegan lucah mesti diorng srh ttup...btol?..inikan pula nk di ajar di sekolah..

2. Di sstgh negara di barat, ade yg mempertontonkan kanak2 sekolah dgn video seks, utk menunjukan cara2 seks selamat...

>klu kat malaysia ni bt mcm tuh...lg byk la bayi yg dijumpai kt surau, longkang, tandas , tong sampah dll,sbb pendidkan seks ini menyuruh org bt seks, mmg la pakai kondom utk seks selamat n mncegah kehamilan, mmg x kantoi sbb x hamil, tapi akidah sbg ISLAM mcm mane, lain la klu bkn islam.


so i pon mls lg nk pnjng cite.... the solution is sooo simple....BACK TO ISLAM...dlm islam da COMPLETE segala-galanya.... apa2 pon bg sesiapa yg terbaca comment aku ni...pkir dlu sblm nk kata apa pon..



>Satu Tuhan(Allah s.w.t itu satu n tiada 2 nya)

>Agama Didahulukan(ISLAM)..solat, puasa n lain2

>Dosa dijauhkan(maksiat, zina, judi, RASUAH dll)

Rue Anemone said...

I totally agree with u encik fared.. good job!

Oh yeah, don't just speak, act..

become a good Muslim, a good husband, a good father, insyaAllah we will build a better generation.

It all comes back to US.

Fared Isa said...

For Lutania and Salim,thanks for giving out ur opinion...I appreciate that... =)

and also thanks to Rue Anemone...yes,let action speak louder than words... =)

Anonymous said...

aku rase kne aja jugak ar skit fared, klo x nti depa pi blaja sndiri lg payah.abis kalut sume mende dier tarah..x bleyh2..so...no conclusion!

_YuGaY_

Fared Isa said...

ahhh...hg jgn nak mai hack blog aku aigay! haha!

Anonymous said...

"THE SECRET by Rhonda Bynes, the things that we attract to is the thing that will comes to us. Whether we think about it because we like it or we don’t, we still attract to it, still attach to it, which will makes that thing comes to us automatically." can u explain more this... other example may be...?

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