Dear Fatine Young

When I was at mamak’s with this evening, my friend suddenly came out with one name that really caught my attention. Fatine Young.   

Look at the picture above. She is Fatine Young. She’s pretty isn’t she? Well, look again because ‘she’ is actually ‘he’.

 His real name is Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari. He was a make-up artist. He turned out to be transsexual, and prefers to be called Fatine or better known as Fatine Young.

Earlier, Fatine made headlines when he married a straight man from Derby, Ian Young in a British civil partnership ceremony last year (u can read here if u care to know how they met). But after a while, she faced the possibility of deportation back to Malaysia when she was denied a visa to stay in UK since she entered the country as a visitor.

After struggling over a year to get a visa to reside in United Kingdom, he finally obtained a valid visa. He announced and shared the good news through his Facebook account. (This was how my friend noticed about him.)

I just don’t understand what’s wrong with people nowadays. Why want to change ur sex genital? He’s not even a khunsa (people are born with two reproductive organs). So why can’t he just accept that he is a man?

Let me tell u some fact Fatine Young.

A lady or a woman is born with uterus, reproductive organs and have menstrual period, can bear children. Those who do not have all these organs, are not women, these are medical facts!

God has created us to be man and woman and God created men to be with women. There will not be any other way.

There is something that brings to my interest. The interviewed between Fatine and Malay Mail. Here I stated few of the questions and answers:

Q: There are those who would claim you've shamed Malaysia, what do you say?
A: It makes me very sad. Far from being sympathetic towards my plight, these people have singled me out from amongst thousands of overstaying Malaysians in the UK. If these people didn't turn their backs on Malaysians who have even been convicted of crimes abroad, why are they dressing me down in public? What crime have I done? I've tried my best to comply with UK Immigration laws. I followed everything by the book and even hired an Immigration lawyer to handle my application, just to ensure I don’t breach UK immigration laws. Tell me how have I brought shame to our nation? Could it stem from prejudice towards me as a pre-op transsexual who was registered at birth as Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari?

Q: There have been questions pertaining to whether you are still a Muslim.
A: As ignorant as I am, my faith has not strayed. I am still a Muslim, and I still carry out my religious duties as expected of me.

Q: Do you think people were confused over the terms marriage and civil partnership? Is it the same or does it just bear similarities?
A: A civil partnership is an agreement, which validates my relationship with Ian within the civil laws of England. It has nothing to do with religion. Ian is still practising his own religion, and so am I.

How in the hell u still consider urself to carry out ur religion?

Everything u did was wrong! Islam never allowed man to be transsexual. Islam never allowed man to be gay. Islam never allowed u to married other religious unless ur partner convert to Islam first. The question here is not about u bring shame to our country, but about u bring shame to ISLAM!

Clearly doing something against the teaching of Islam and confirm himself a Muslim is really stupid and shows his ignorance even more. If Fatine is not a muslim, if he wants to marry a cow also I wouldn't really care. But since he declares himself still following the teaching, u cannot pick and choose what u want to practice and not.  U has to accept the whole package. I really hate it when people try to change the religion according to their whims and fancy and saying "let God decide". Hasn't God decided in His teachings?

I know for some so-called-modern-muslim and non-muslim (supporters of Fatine)must say that being a Muslim is like having an old fashioned, third world, kampung mentality. U guys might say let Fatine go on with his life. Don’t bother him as he done nothing wrong and bring no harm to anybody. U guys might say he deserved to lead his own way of life.

Well, for those who said like above, think again.

Let me give u an example, like me, yesterday I killed 3 kittens by putting them on my snake aqua. I saw my pet ate them one by one. I felt happy all day long as I heard they're screaming like hell. As long as I’m happy, I don’t care what people said and my parent supported me too. Please don’t condemn me u guys. Don’t judge me, I just do what I like to do, I deserve to lead my own way of life. U guys just shut the fuck up and mind ur own business.

SO WAS MY ACTION RIGHT? NO, IT IS WRONG!

Same as Fatine’S case here, even he deserve to lead his own way of life, to find his own way of happiness, and having some minority supporting him, that still doesn’t make it right. What’s wrong is still wrong even u do it for ur own happiness. Things that against the nature is clearly wrong.

And u guys might say that Fatine’s action does not bring harm to anyone, but my example just now did bring harmed to 3 kittens. Well, think thoroughly. Fatine’s action actually will bring worst harm than ever. He will harm the society. He will harm the human ecosystem. He will destroy the next and the future generation. If one people were allowed to easily change their transsexual, than many will follow his footstep.

Let be honest and ask ourselves, what will happen to our generation if this kind of action is acceptable in the society? God (any god) don't ask u to just pray, sit down and accept everything but God has given us brain to think wisely. So use ur head to think!

I sincerely sympathize with Fatine. But nope, I won't accept his excuses. I strongly urged that this person seek forgiveness and repent. If he still admitted that he is a Muslim, if he was born and named with BIN, please repent and seek forgiveness.

Fatine, Islam is not only faith but also a way of life. These two goes together. If u calls urself a Muslim, u has to adhere to the rules and regulations of the religion. Being a Muslim, u are within a 'group' and to maintain peace every member of the group will have to follow the rules of the group. If one doesn't follow and let be there will be chaos. Since u decided to marry a man, and not follow the rule of the group, might as well leave the group (Islam). If the group allows u to be in the 'group' then there will be chaos. Because every member of the group will think on how easy it is to just break the rules and get away with it. Hope u understand brother.